I think that if you want to move on from having romantic feelings about your half sister, you will need to get into therapy and tease it out over a course of many sessions. A male reader, anonymous, writes 7 June 2008 : Meh. A female reader, , writes 15 September 2009 : I can't relate to your situation but I do have two older sisters I'm very fond of but it's just fond. So i tell her since i don't have a rubber on and she pulls it out and sucks it dry. If two siblings long for one another, where's the harm? And I doubt it ever will. A reader, anonymous, writes 16 September 2009 : err ok but inscest is still wrong whether you ask the religious or non-religious. So I am pleasantly surprised by your reactions.
Whatcha been cookin for my man for ay? Sorry, but that's the way it is for me, and I really have a problem understanding why this is wrong. I don't think you are a lesbian either as you mention fantasizing and being attracted to men. While i came i made it look like a sneeze so my mother wouldn't be weirded out, you know your family would act weird if you and your sister had something going on. My sis and I have had our ups and downs, just like any other relationship. I agree with the other posts, that you are confused. Im sur that as children most of us have played the hide and go get it game. Before that,I never concidered her attractive at all,she was plain in my eyes.
I struggled with the feeling that I might be gay, but the thing is I never hooked up with another girl except my sis. It was then,two years ago,I started having feelings for her. Is it normal to fall in love with your step sister like I have? On the way home she told me to stop the car and we started kissing and went to a hotel and made love and cried. Cause you ain't got no food at your house What you mean I ain't got no food at my house? But there were two problems. However, if you just try and separate your love of her and desire for her you will find it easier to keep up your non sexual relationship with her while redirecting your sexual desires to boys that are not members of your family. You can also follow along on and.
No man has the right to judge me for any of this! She wanted out and she got out. For four years we were happy. I'm a 18 year old girl in love with her older sister,who is 24. Ya know what i mean? What are your plans for the future? Rest assured that if all the experimenting has passed and it is actually love, it's not the strangest thing I've ever seen, far from it. Good Luck and keep us posted! We talked, fondeled and made love. Time to visit a marriage councilor to find out what is really the issue, because love is both equal parts work and pleasure.
We can easily talk for hours at a time. Your parents will undoubtedly be freaked out by it, but parents love their kids no matter what, and maybe one day they would be able to accept it. I also had two great aunts who lived their entire lives together so maybe there was more to the story than just two old spinsters but I doubt it. We made up these stories about being saved from dragons and evil witches. The desires of the body and the desires of the mind are two completly dirferent things.
What is it about her that makes you feel like you are in love with her? A male reader, , writes 24 April 2009 : Hi. Regardless your not technicaly related. A female reader, , writes 15 September 2009 : Yes. I know this is hard, but you have accept that she has moved on and you need to take steps to do the same. I am at present, 33 years old and for the past eleven years I have been in love with my younger half-sister.
Do you have others who you engage with? Normally feelings affect through thoughts and that is cause of your five senses. We stuck our tongues out and tried it. We continued this throughout high school until we both went to different colleges and now I do not know what to do. So my sister kept on rubbing my crotch with her foot and i eventually released the biggest, warmest, best feeling load in my young life. Ignoring the whole half-sister thing, it is not healthy to be this dependent on another person. You need to find yourself a girlfriend, and after you do, you will see this thing for what it really was. A friend of mine told me she had her suspicions about me and my sis but she nixed the whole idea because we were sisters.
I admire that you are coming out to tell everyone this kind of story, but don't let it bother you if no one does come out to say a similar story. Just read Leviticus and you'll see a lot of ridiculous rules nobody follows anymore. A female reader, , writes 1 February 2008 : I love really my boyfriend, my friends, animals, my Brother, my sister, etc. I read we got chemicals in our body to stop us falling for our family members, at least the ones we grow up with. It is just not worth it. When I was like 19 I realized I may be feeling something I shouldn't, but since the moment I realized what it was, it grew exponentially. You need to focus on yourself and your mental and emotional well-being.
Please don't take offense from my questions, and don't feel obliged to answer them, I'm just hoping to get a bit more information on the matter in an attempt to help you see if you can understand better what might actually be going on in your minds. I am 50 and my half-sister — we share the same dad — is 43. We were at home alone after school and she was in some short cloth shorts and a tank when I realized how hot my step sister was. What was best for me turned out to be him breaking up with me. And that i hope everything works out.