It is terrifying to realise that he may never change or ever want to change. I have sat at home for the last 8 months alone. About 6 months later, the sex ended when we moved to Canada. She trash talks my 4 kids who are grown and lifts up her four kids and perfect g-kids on social media. Fixing someone is not your job no matter how much you love them.
You feel lonely not because of him, but if you were songle you would be getting more attention from guys. I can finally be myself!! Now both these ways of breaking up are foolproof and you can definitely use it too. Maybe he leaves but maybe he doesn't and would allow you the space to explore this desire. It was so hard to get a foot out the door, and I just want to keep going. I would go ahead and look for an apartment, then move on.
Talk to him and do not think that if you give him hints he will get them. Called in sick to work the next day, drunk when I got home from work. His blood alcohol is something like. He disrespect me and tells me that he wished I was dead. He is currently dying from an incurable disease and he has a daughter that adores me. When he would drive he'd hold me close to him, now he's more rigid, and will only let me rest my head for a few moments.
Well, its been 5 years and things just came to a head this summer. He may be ok with not being with other women himself, but you don't know untill you discuss it. I want him to live a happy life. I take good care of myself by running, swimming, biking, etc. Perhaps you could start off by asking him what things he would like to have more from you? Asking how and why you lost your love for someone or they lost their love for you is one of the most important aspects to understanding yourself and improving loving relationships for the future with your ex or anyone else.
I know I need to have the conversation and tell him my truth. Scheduled to go back and sign the papers next week and then he will be served. Closer to hell I guess! He gets made if I come home from work to late and will already be drunk when ii get home. So many lives affected by alcohol. I think we make good roommates with benefits rather than a couple. If you do tell him, yes he'll be mad, hurt and have a ton of questions that no answer will be good enough but then that's the price your going to have to pay for.
Talk to your husband honestly. Its not that you don't love him or cherish him and its not like he doesn't for you. So by sticking to my guns, in the end, I got what I wanted most of all. I am 62 and worked for free for this man in his medical office. Some would say that makes it easier and I would agree but there are still a lot of other things that have to be taken into consideration as well. He's a loving man, I know this in my mind, but I just don't feel it.
We have a 17 year old daughter. My Depression and Anxiety turned into a nightmare of nausea and Norwalk Virus symptoms. I am not a stupid woman, but this man makes me behave like one. I sense her heart is being partially governed by fear, and learning to let go will set both her and her suitors free. Tell the truth as long as you are safe to do so. We are like empty corpses living under the same roof.
It was good to write things out. They learned first hand that the grass is not greener on the other side, it is just different. My wife is like your husband in that she doesn't touch much. I wish you the best!! You wait at the red light because that is what you have been trained to do. I had to fly out to get him.
So I will ask again, is there something darker and more worrysome taking place here that you haven't told us yet? Its necessary to get this attention from guys to make you feel good and your missing out because your married. My dog is even scared of him. You can just say you. Is there something you learned from him that means he should refer to you? I just feel like I make a mess of things. I helped take care of his mom for 2 years until she passed.
My kids want come around from my first marriage. This is a perfect example. I grew up with an alcoholic father and swore I would never expose my children to that kind of life. I need to just calm down and do it. I am not happy anymore. But at the same time, a sudden separation with no goodbyes can traumatize you for months.